Almost Grown Up

Moving on | May 22, 2008

So by now most of you are probably aware, at least  to some extent, of what happened between La and I. I’ve gotten some pretty nasty emails today, which has hurt. While it’s heartening to see that someone you care about so well cared for by her friends, it’s kind of crappy to feel so hated when no one stopped to ask you about what happened.

Could I sit here and explain my actions, my version of this? Yes. Would it accomplish anything? No. Those who know me will either ask me about what happened or will just accept that I’m not some horrible person. Those who choose to believe the worst about me will. There’s nothing I can do. Know that I am upset about what happened, but I won’t be speaking about it further.

To that end, with what I’ve seen today, I’ve decided to move. I certainly didn’t sign up for the nastiness that’s been thrown my way, so perhaps it’s better to change things from here, rather than fighting a battle with people who don’t care what I have to say.

So, sometime in the next week or two, I’ll be starting this little project up again elsewhere. To those of you who want the address, just email me or leave a comment asking for it and I’ll get it to you.

Posted in Reflections


  1. Oh, yes– do send me your new address!

    Comment by Megan — May 22, 2008 @ 5:44 pm

  2. Me too. Address please!

    Comment by Janice — May 22, 2008 @ 6:31 pm

  3. Wow, it sucks that this happened.

    I’m sorry.

    Send me your new address when you get it up and running!

    Comment by Laurel — May 22, 2008 @ 7:52 pm

  4. i just found you. and now you’re LEAVING?

    suckage. stop by my blog or email me when you find your new digs, yeah?

    girls suck sometimes. i can say that, since i am one.

    take care.

    Comment by drbolte — May 22, 2008 @ 10:15 pm

  5. URL please!

    Why all these bitches be clawing at you man? Some people really need to learn about LIMITS!

    Comment by Yoda — May 22, 2008 @ 11:26 pm

  6. hi nick…i saw about this on fb. and spoke to la. i’m sorry that you’re getting what seems to be the brunt/blame in this for something that is of utmost personal concern between you two. i love la, and i’ve come to love your blog too. so, if you can get me the url, i’d like to keep up. hope to see you back soon, in the meantime…take the time you need to sort things out for yourself.

    Comment by libby — May 22, 2008 @ 11:53 pm

  7. 😦 Take care.

    Comment by alyndabear — May 23, 2008 @ 1:22 am

  8. yeah i don’t know what happened and don’t really need to know but would like your address pleeeeaseeee

    Comment by crystall — May 23, 2008 @ 7:08 am

  9. Delurking to say, love your blog, read daily (and just went to all your linked blogs last night to enjoy!). Pls send new URL, if you so desire. All the best…

    Comment by Monica — May 23, 2008 @ 8:34 am

  10. Breakups are the worst! Please send me the new URL

    Comment by csquared — May 23, 2008 @ 1:33 pm

  11. *hug*

    Hey babe, send me a link – I’m sorry things took a downturn.

    *more hug*

    Comment by Cat — May 26, 2008 @ 2:52 am

  12. I should add that I lost my phone charger and my cell has since run out of batteries. In the meantime, let me know if you need someone to vent to and I’ll send my home number your way.

    Comment by Cat — May 27, 2008 @ 2:45 am

  13. but for serious.

    are you up and running yet? i can funnel witty titles your way…and i’m not above shameless emotional manipulation…of someone i don’t even know…yeah, how about cookies? 🙂

    Comment by drbolte — May 28, 2008 @ 11:23 pm

  14. I’ve been the silent reader of your blog. Hope that’s not too creepy. Regardless, i’d like to continue reading, that is, if you wouldn’t mind. So link me!

    And I do hope for the best for you regarding this situation. No matter what, break ups suck for everyone. But give it time. Soon, eventually, it’ll be okay.

    Comment by Lauren — May 31, 2008 @ 3:17 pm

  15. Hi, I just found you and have no idea what’s going on between you and whoever. I’d just like to read your blog — looking for new and interesting blogs. So, if you have a sec please send me a link.

    Comment by Dingo — June 2, 2008 @ 9:42 am

  16. I’ve been reading you for awhile. Please send me the link to your new blog when you get it up and running.

    Comment by Breanna — June 3, 2008 @ 12:04 pm

  17. I would like the new link please 🙂

    Comment by Angela — June 4, 2008 @ 2:00 pm

  18. gosh i’m LATE!
    can i get the new addy
    just cleaned out my google reader and saw this.

    Comment by jo — October 23, 2009 @ 3:38 pm

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